{"id":1520,"date":"2016-05-02T11:01:58","date_gmt":"2016-05-02T16:01:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/?p=1520"},"modified":"2016-05-02T11:01:58","modified_gmt":"2016-05-02T16:01:58","slug":"church-bullies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/2016\/05\/02\/church-bullies\/","title":{"rendered":"Church Bullies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Below is a very interesting article about bullies in the church.<br \/>\nIn the past I have seen this behavior by members of a church. \u00a0I saw a pastor leave a congregation following some of this behavior. \u00a0The title is indicates that there are good reasons, however the good reasons are from the bully perspective.<br \/>\nThe article provides fantastic information to keep in mind when you hear what you might perceive as someone being a bully.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/12-REASONS-WHY-IT-IS-GOOD.pdf\">12 REASONS WHY IT IS GOOD TO BE A CHURCH BULLY<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Below is a very interesting article about bullies in the church. In the past I have seen this behavior by members of a church. \u00a0I saw a pastor leave a congregation following some of this behavior. \u00a0The title is indicates that there are good reasons, however the good reasons are from the bully perspective. The &#8230; <span class=\"more\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/2016\/05\/02\/church-bullies\/\">[Read more&#8230;]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[108,29,106,90],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-admin","4":"post-1520","6":"format-standard","7":"category-bullies","8":"category-community","9":"category-conflict","10":"category-control"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2m6h5-ow","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":594,"url":"https:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/2013\/09\/25\/arent-christians-called-to-the-least-last\/","url_meta":{"origin":1520,"position":0},"title":"Aren&#8217;t Christians Called to the least, last&#8230;.","author":"Douglas Dill","date":"September 25, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Here is a post from a friend of mine. 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