{"id":186,"date":"2012-02-24T09:26:00","date_gmt":"2012-02-24T15:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/2012\/02\/24\/to-fear-death-vs-fear-dying\/"},"modified":"2012-02-24T09:26:00","modified_gmt":"2012-02-24T15:26:00","slug":"to-fear-death-vs-fear-dying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/2012\/02\/24\/to-fear-death-vs-fear-dying\/","title":{"rendered":"To Fear Death vs Fear Dying"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: left;\" trbidi=\"on\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I have posted this to both of my blogs this time.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">As a Christian, I have the faith in God, that there is a promise of life not death upon the physical death. &nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;\">This is a belief I find h<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;\">ope and comfort in.&nbsp; The idea of death is not anxious creating but freeing, as a Christian.&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;\">This relief extends not only to my own loss but to the loss of people around me.&nbsp; Loss of someone you know can create a hole inyour existence.&nbsp; A familiarity of presence is lost when someone dies.&nbsp;However, the trust in the promise that death has been defeated is greater.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_Tof3kEgqgoM\/SSDo_TfBzOI\/AAAAAAAABoA\/myTQBBrgHHc\/s400\/mirror2.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"240\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_Tof3kEgqgoM\/SSDo_TfBzOI\/AAAAAAAABoA\/myTQBBrgHHc\/s320\/mirror2.jpg?resize=320%2C240\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I hear people talk about death anxiety but this is not what I feel.&nbsp; It is not the death but the process of dying that can cause anxiety for me.&nbsp; There are several ways that I absolutely do NOT want to die, given a choice.&nbsp; For me, fire, beheading and drowning are my top three.&nbsp; However, anyone of those three while dying for my beliefs as a Christian, I can take some comfort in.&nbsp; Knowing that I would die for being a Christian is an honorable way to go, but the impact on those left can be extreme.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">So what if I amwrong?&nbsp; What if my beliefs and faith is flawed?&nbsp; What then?&nbsp; Do I need to fear and become anxious overdeath?&nbsp; What is it is about death that some fear?&nbsp; Prior to becoming Christian, I did fear death and dying.&nbsp; I did not want to die and loose out what I could live out in life.&nbsp; To die before I could get the most done was an anxious feeling to have.&nbsp; I will loose out of getting and doing of all the things I could get done.&nbsp; For others to die, it was a great loss to see someone not have a chance to do more and be more and be with me and do for me and me for them.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Do I have doubts?&nbsp; Sure, from time to time I doubt.&nbsp; My doubts allow me to question my beliefs and my faith.&nbsp; To prove why I do believe what I do and to strengthen my faith.&nbsp; If I am wrong, I have not lost anything.&nbsp; I have done as much as I can in the name of Christ, in my faith.&nbsp; This in turns allows much to be done for all and thus I did not loose out at all.&nbsp; If I am right, then I have no fear of death and receive life.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-size: 11pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">\u201cDoubt isn&#8217;t the opposite of faith; it is an element of faith.\u201d&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\">\u2015&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"background-attachment: initial; 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As a Christian, I have the faith in God, that there is a promise of life not death upon the physical death. &nbsp;This is a belief I find hope and comfort in.&nbsp; The idea of death is not anxious creating but freeing, as a &#8230; <span class=\"more\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/2012\/02\/24\/to-fear-death-vs-fear-dying\/\">[Read more&#8230;]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-admin","4":"post-186","6":"format-standard","7":"category-death"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2m6h5-30","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":68,"url":"https:\/\/www.messy-spirituality.com\/wordpress\/2012\/02\/24\/to-fear-death-vs-to-fear-dying\/","url_meta":{"origin":186,"position":0},"title":"To Fear Death vs To Fear Dying","author":"Douglas Dill","date":"February 24, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"I have posted this to both of my blogs this time. 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